Life can be like a terrible storm. But, while we hide in whatever shelter we may find, (or build for ourselves as Jesus advises) the storm winnows out our being to our essential Being. What matters and what doesn’t emerges clearly if we listen to its roaring.
Love Actually (a movie) portrays life can be like an ocean, difficult to navigate. Human emotions and passions can ebb and flow in unpredictable patterns. We are all subject to the foamy sea of life, for it is around us, in others and in ourselves.
Humans try to make existence orderly, predictable, and manageable. But, it is more likely than not folly to assume that is the way of happiness. That seems a perpetual frustration, like a child building sand castles by the sea.
Who can control an ocean? I believe is the question. Is it not then more advisable to recognize the ocean (that is Life Itself in its diverse and infinite abundance) and change ourselves accordingly? Learn to swim, bath, wade in it. Dive and frolick? Get a vehicle that enables us to enjoy it even more intensely, like a surf board or sail boat?
Who can control an ocean? Who can stem it’s tide and keep it with in its bounds?
I believe that this delusion is the folly of modern human beings. And, to the degree humans try to restrain Life, control it, systematize it, force it- subjugate it to human will- is the degree the storm returns upon them.
Characters in Love Actually understood that they were powerless to a degree without love. They were menaced by its absence. Love gives life! And, they were vexed and failed to find it when they didn’t play by Life’s rules, or “love’s rules.”
Love or the potential for it weaved through every moment of what may well be dull and mundane modern life- work, chores. Eat, sleep. Repeat. Love gives life meaning. And, they looked in hopeful anticipation of it constantly.